簡單及美好的人生

 

 

 

 

As the title, you never know what`s coming for you. I have been a single for one month. My mind and body turns to be independent and free. No more tremble for soreness. Somehow, I could leave out all of the rest. My mood is on the mend. My grief for my broken love affection is at all relieved on the lapse of time. I could do everything wiht a beam of joy. I start to crave for the recognition by new life and people. I don’t flinch from a difficulty. Ha! The following is my possible picture in 2009.

1.Surfing, Surfing, Surfing.Just Surfing. I take all weekend time to go surfing in Honeymoon. You can’t image how I am hypnotized in this amazing sport. Surfing makes me full and lumious.Be a sweat surfing woman.

2. Wistron. I am working in Wistron now and decide to stay this company more than 2 years. Reviewing my past one year, I ware venturesome and pompous. I left Quanta and joined the headhunter job.This experience gave a lesson. But I ware aware of the life I would like to seek for. To keep a Stable Step in this year.

3. Triathlon. I have to keep strong will to take routine training for triathlon. I am good at swimming but biking and jogging should be improved. I convinced myself "Why not aggreasvie to be a iron man"! It is time to practice.

4. Love affair. Oh, it is low prority in my mind. I don’t want to miss any Good LOVE AFFAIR Opportunity. But I hope my man could accept my surfing habit and a little emotion. I strongly believe love is worth the fall when you meet the right man.

5. Keep a good figure. When I get older, I have adapt I am easy to get weight. Thus, more practice, more slim. It is an inevitable principle. Pretty shape makes me confident and radiant.

6. PMP certificate. No doublt, I must be certified by PMP. Reading and Studying PMP become part of life.

 

 

 

• 三月離開明基,想跳脫local market,去嘗試國際代工廠的生活,但卻像是個迷失的兔子,跑進險惡的叢林,在廣達服務客人是L公司,L公司堪稱國際前五大NB Branding,但是內部管理卻沒有因為買下IBM NB有國際公司的水準. 現在雖在中國市場稱霸,國外市場仍是靠IBM計有通路業苦撐著~但中國客人卻仗著霸氣,非常難搞且沒有制度,老實說我真得很瞧不起這種感覺及態度,總覺得越是成功,就要越懂得謙虛及學習,但是卻在這個客人上看不到該有國際公司的水準. 當然在Q公司這部門也有不好地方,但是我也努力去做完手上工作了! 但是卻變成別人眼中的台灣阿信,有著不屈不饒精神,但是有越聽話努力做,確有越來越笨的感覺!
• 決定離開Q公司,不完全是衝動,更不是逃避, 而是不想逃了,不想老是居就在這個窟窿裡,自怨自艾,想嘗試不同得,想嘗試更多想像!

"你年輕時,應該多方嘗試,看看你的長處及興趣在哪裡,但是當你年歲漸長時,你應該更佳專注,才能走更遠"=>我要說得是我不是快閃族,我想試試看是否我能做不樣的事!機會來臨時,何嘗不狠下心去試呢!越不看好我的人,我越有股衝動,我要做給你看~我還是這樣固執阿!

[是我們所做的選擇,而不是我們的能力,證明了我們是誰]The choices you make, make you-羅琳

 最後還是去聽了方大同演唱會(The wall)

這歌手讓人充滿驚豔 股子裡住著一個黑人吧 Jazz,R&B,搖擺tone調 太濃厚了

現場一堆男生 看到都發呆了=>果然有音樂天才的人,男女都傾慕阿

                本來帶著很糟的心情參加公司的新人訓練.六天五夜聽到都覺得不可思議.更何況又要放下好不容易上手地工作參加,心中充滿滿滿地無奈.......

                 很妙地開始,人資學長姐,把我們分組(回到小時候的團康活動嗎???),一群年紀也不輕的小子們聚集在一起(不會要玩團康巴....)(最小是1982.但也二十好幾啦).........幹,最重要這群人怎感覺悶悶悶的,說實在我雖是很high man的人,但要是碰到太悶的團體,很難持久highㄟ......不管就自願當一下CEO,這輩子能被叫CEO,大概只有這六天五夜,就厚臉皮,自己引薦囉...(人越老,臉皮真的越厚....)~啥!!!要取隊名隊呼,還要戰舞....."有錢真好"如何??沒人反對也沒人很贊同...不管啦!!!就用下去了....動作永遠不一致,關鍵是我總是會跳錯...幹...我本來就是跟不上拍子的.....不管,用聲音大來取勝~~為了得分,每聽到上課音樂,已變成制約的狗,開始聞樂起瘋....一群高大男...全體耍起寶來..有時再來各兩小隊聯姻.一起起瘋..感覺真是妙極了!!!!

               說實在我是各很容易分心的人,但上課為了小隊.變得自己狂搶答,希望就是拼到前幾名.......我不是愛現地人(真的啦,雖然很難相信) 但是我是會為了榮譽,變得很積極....說實在,上課內容最後能記得啥?只有跟小組及老師地互動中,產生深刻地映象,那就是學到了..

              課程安排真的很用心, 王素芸專業顧問講師,所教受的工作管理,其實就是商學院理督有講道地本觀念,8020法則來貫穿 以下的主題"如魚得水","創意思考心智圖","時間管理,",PDCA方法來導入問題解決的工具,在考驗我們是否了解了核心,老師更是強調人際溝通的情緒管理分析與技巧,這些課成,在外面上課一定所費不貲地,感覺又念了好幾天的書喔!!!!

            關鍵時刻(Moments of Truth, MOT),這也是IBM的教育錄影帶,雖說年代有地久遠,但核心傳達的觀念還是不變的,如為客戶創造更多的價值,MOT的行為模式,是不斷的循環在探索=>提議=>行動=>確認,靠這樣地邏輯去思考事件的過程.然後對應出"適當"的行為模式(須符合完整,可行,又能雙贏),這真是很棒的case study,不管從事研發還業務,都很有助益,每個人都是MOT中的關鍵人物,牽動整個事件的成與敗....

          誰與爭鋒 的課程,完全就是個洗腦加身體超翻的遊戲,或許台灣人就是要被洗腦,才知道不可以不進不了,不想輸給韓國人,不想被大陸人超越,靠玩樂絕不可能成功,也避不了被取代,所以需要倍正向的意念洗腦,不管自己是否過於感性,模擬鉅木,站在高崗上(要九個人擠在一個小椅子上,持續90秒),大家忍受彼此的臭汗....幹....總不能敗在這總遊戲上,撐過去了....大家似乎都哭了,因為很久沒被感動了.......在混亂的商場,能夠體驗到這總團體合作的課程,又是如此地深刻,即使未來不知是否會長久待在BenQ,但這六天的回憶是forever永遠永遠地~~~

             才短短兩個星期,開始習慣六點鐘驚醒,雖然老是說服自己在睡五分鐘,但醒來時總是已經過十分鐘了.頓時,就是考驗意志力時刻,我在想請假地掙扎及沮喪中,強迫自己撐住=>跳起來,賺錢真是辛苦阿...我必須六點四十分出門.趕上七點的火車.這黃金20分鐘,可以完成刷牙洗臉,換衣服,打包電腦,抹保養品及畫上基礎彩妝....若多睡一會,就會壓縮到趕火車地時間...每天還是幻想著,希望早上五點半起床,煮著coffee,吃著早餐,縱容地迎接早晨,但這各始終流於幻想,目前尚未成真過~~

            衝出大門,慌亂鎖上兩道複雜的鐵門...小心但又要快步地跨完六層樓樓梯,以免自己一不小掉下去.搭上公車,下車再步行到捷運站,到了火車站,看到尚未七點(六點54分),好不興份,我有多餘時間買票ㄟ....早上可以為趕上自強號,而打從心底地感動~

             八點到公司,可以說是我活到現在感覺很妙地情境,大部分人督來了...開始收信,其實也沒幾封...新人嗎?!我倒是很珍惜現在不會太忙地生活...時間總是充裕地很.開始每天至少有一到兩個會議,剩至有到三個會議,有project meeting,事業處週會,訓練課程等.可以塞滿控檔沒事幹的時間..其實,每個會都滿有意義地.總是感覺很充實,每天都一點一點的在進步中!!!感覺真的跟華碩有很大的差別,雖說Benq也有許多缺點,但這裡的氣氛及人,目前都讓我很愛ㄟ~~工作果然是看重公司文化!!

              大概5點半時,就可以視狀況.準備何時回家...東摸西摸,我總是最早也要弄到6點30走,好在回家的站牌,就在公司附近,抓準時間,走到那沒多久就可以等到車了...每當上車後20分鐘,都會固定出現迷濛狀態,恍恍地睡著了,但卻又會不自覺地在行天宮站前慢慢醒來,貼心地司機大哥,總是會耐心等候...因為也是最後一站啦!他得趕回去.....跨下車子,再步行10分鐘慢慢地走回家,沿路.總是想著要買啥東西吃呢?!衝去全家還是7-11呢?不吃到時候會饿ㄟ....已經買了好幾次的餅乾了,吃到督快吐了,尤其像我這各偏執狂,好吃食會狂吃好一陣子...噁噁~~~

            開始,又蹲在家裡的電腦前.摸msn 及outlook,等待哪位善心人士,來給我m一下,左等又等,等到脖子都酸了...沒人鳥我...又一陣沒落,胡亂地看一些有地沒地新聞....時間又到11點半,再不洗澡,明天就痛苦囉.....放棄等待MSN訊息,無奈關上電腦,告訴自己=>該洗澡了.........

           這大概就是我每天生活地概序,唯一地變化,可能是以後工作時間變長,晚回家...不然就是我買車了,交通工具變了....現在70%放棄等待msn,把時間留給其他了........

            生活真的是自己一個人,難得地人生自由期~~`

             新的一年過了四各月,過不了多久就年中了.日子就在變動間.無意識下地流走.回想不是只有自己遭遇許多事情,週遭的好友們好像也陸陸續續生活督有些變化..該怎說呢?我的思慮及心境,確實改變許多.從工作來說.從華碩的報到及最後離職,找工作的壓力.到現在每天通車往返桃園Benq上班.從報持著滿滿地熱誠及衝勁,現在卻以平常心看待.但默默地改進自己的缺點及學習沉穩地觀察,等待機會來臨.準備努力地表現,過往的衝動,我要用外柔內剛的方式來克服,微笑似乎是很好的武器但卻保持我真實地友善~~~告訴自己不要太嚴肅了~~

            Prepare Well,[幸運總是眷戀準備好的人],因為自己的平庸,我知道凡事皆得努力.我ㄧ向不是考運奇好的人,我的努力絕對要加倍才會得到....所以之前考證照不成功,也是自己念書不夠專注,哎呀...不期待跟誰比較,只希望自己不要虛度最後的青少 四年.我開始把30歲當做一個門檻,算算自己到30歲時,回首發現自己雖無功成名就,卻努力做到自己的短情目標(PMI執照, 穩定工作及存款,成熟及健康的自己).當然,希望爸媽姊姊哥哥弟弟平平安安~~

          感情嘛~這是我一直無法克服地問題,說我迷信也好.聽到一些老師說我的情感不順利,總是不服氣...所以回首過往,每年督有衝動行為,以為自己追求的是對地,忘記檢討衝動慘痛的結果是患得患失....我承認對感情有種深深地依賴,是需要長期地培養及觀察,來達到穩定地感受,加上我脾氣來時,常會不小心說出傷人的話,往往這也是造成失敗的主因~~這些都是我反觀對自己的檢討....當自己感覺寂寞時,反覆告訴自己,確實地想我要地到底是什麼,這樣真的很坦然,有時我也喜歡躲在自己安全自在地小洞中,不想再受外界第誘惑,搞得自己傷痕累累.....現在看到不錯的異性,已經不再只是被肉體及感官地吸引,會壓抑自己單純心地動的心,思考著更深地心靈層次...因為我想要地是各穩定地感覺,生活已經很辛苦了.要地就是平靜地感情,在平靜之中,壤我的快樂,他真實地感受到....真的有點難巴~~尤其自己跌跌撞撞地幾年,從滿滿地期待,到最後的看淡....我的心思逐漸放在追逐事業成就及生活樂趣地滿足~~~認真地過日子感覺真的很扎實~~~~

            2006,26歲,給自己一個大大地鼓勵,突破自我的課程~~一定會幸福地~~~

 

時間:3/22~4/1

地點:墾丁;佳樂水;恆春

心情紀錄板:

        不懂自己是善變還是容易被影響~~~

帶了許多期待去墾丁,卻意外多了沒預料的驚喜!我沒車,只能靠兩隻腳,或靠朋友.也不認識很多人,剛開始感覺自己很自閉,不知道如何開口跟人聊天.所以,開始的幾天,就好像住在鄉下一樣,每天的行程就是白天睡到很晚,醒了就跳起來去衝浪,下午再睡個午覺,醒了再跳起來去衝浪,最後....晚上就早早上床昏迷..空檔時間就是看書,不然就是跟人聊天~~這樣的日子,起初真的很無聊,但是卻到最後習慣了.原來我內心的本質是個老人,如果在墾丁有各自己的店或工作,大概就會過著這樣''慢活"的步調..

      沒錢,想要趁年輕完成一些成就等等,讓我不會有想馬上在墾丁定居的念頭.這是個很棒的夢想,你可以看到阿郎店裡的快樂大哥,為了衝浪,從台北來墾丁打工.....雖我沒跟他多聊,但是深深感覺他的快樂. Take大哥,住在台灣13年的日本人,本來是個再台南的貿易商,最後收起生意,改做投資衝浪店,現在在墾丁瘋狂衝浪,這些pro-surfer,讓我深深佩服他們的精神..我的後期人生,或許也是這樣吧~墾丁獨居老人的情景.我的大陸夢,好像因為去趟墾丁,變沒有期待了.......

         玩衝浪,是無心插柳,我抱持娛樂性質,不想得失心太重.....但是會不自覺想要每個週末往海邊跑,享受自己每次的進步....呵呵,大海真是給我許多娛樂阿!!!

        想買台車,讓自己能夠在自主些.....帶著自己的衝浪板.....隨心所欲 Play by Heart~~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The man who said 'I'd rather be lucky than good’ saw deeply into life.  People are afraid to face how great a part of life is dependent on luck.  It's scary to think so much is out of one's control.  There are moments in a match when the ball hits the top of the net and for a split second it can either go forward or fall back.  With a little luck, it goes forward and you win…or maybe it doesn’t, and you lose.”

夢想

每個人，心中都有夢想。有的是人生大夢，是終其一生要達到的境界，通常與事業、志業有關。像29歲的葉繡華，從一個撿馬糞的女孩，到擁有馬場；34歲的李芸嬋，從月薪兩萬的買便當助理，到新銳女導演……。

有的是生活小夢，在事業之外，渴望追尋人生的平衡。像律師羅明通，循著當年達爾文的南美航行路線再走一遍；台灣惠普董事長何薇玲，每週不間斷的練習聲樂……。

他們為了讓夢想成真，有計畫、有系統、有紀律的實踐。不過，像他們這樣努力圓夢的人並不多。根據美國最新調查顯示，只有15％的人有達成夢想的步驟。換言之，85％的人都只是在「做夢」。
日本管理學者大前研一做了結論：「這輩子都不要說『我以後要怎樣怎樣……』。如果有『以後』想做的事，現在，沒錯，就請現在去做！」

你的夢想有多大，世界就有多大。新的一年，設定你的夢想，寫下你的方法，開始圓夢！

文●李盈穎

掌握10守則 離夢想更近
圓夢秘訣》訂出目標、具體規劃、強制實踐

你的夢想是什麼？…，有些人要想一想，甚至還答不上來。

或者，換個方式問，你心裡有什麼渴望？

對生命沒有渴望，沒有夢想的人，可能晚上一到，就習慣坐到電視機旁，或呼朋引伴去唱ＫＴＶ、毫無節制的刷卡購物，打發時間，同時，也打發掉自己的生命。

這樣的人生，就像是《聖經》上所羅門王所說的：「人的一生不過七、八十，但其中矜誇的，不過是勞苦愁煩，轉眼成空，我們便如飛而去。」如果不甘如此，從現在開始，請發掘心裡的渴望，找出你的夢想。

而夢想，根據其目的又分成兩類，一類是人生的大夢，是終其一生要達到的境界，通常與事業、志業有關。

另一類則是生活的小夢，是在事業之外，渴望追尋人生平衡的夢想。

然而，有了夢想以後，能成功逐夢者卻屬鳳毛麟角。無法圓夢的原因主要有二：

一、缺乏聚焦的目標
二、缺乏行動力

尤其人生大夢，其圓夢難度更高。

夢想，是想做的事現在就去做

成功學大師拿破崙．希爾說：「沒有目標，不可能發生任何事情，也不可能採取任何步驟。」目標需要聚焦，譬如，如果你想「經營一家年營業額七千萬、獲利率三○％的公司」，就比「我要開一家賺錢公司」來得聚焦。有了聚焦目標，才能進行後續規畫。

規畫，則必須是行之有效的細節計畫，包括：

一、蒐集資訊
二、依八十／二十法則列出重要的事
三、以週、月、年計畫查核是否達成

目標、規畫確立後，行動就必須立刻展開。日本管理學者大前研一，在三十年的顧問生涯裡接觸過至少一千位經營者，有些企業領袖總愛談論退休後的夢想，但大前研一非常確定：「他們之中沒有一個人能完成夢想。」因為，這些人都總是延後想做的事。

因此，他的結論是：「這輩子都不要說『我以後要怎樣怎樣……』。如果有『以後』想做的事，現在，沒錯，就請現在去做！」

根據美國職涯線上顧問公司Think-TQ.com，在二○○五年十二月針對三萬名美國人進行的調查結果顯示，只有二六％的人，為自己的夢想設定了「可以達成的有形目標」；只有一五％的人，把夢想可以「具體化的細節」一一寫下來；只有七％的人，「每天都做了讓自己離夢想更近一步的事」，換句話說，多數人即使有夢想，都還停留在做夢階段。

這個調查是根據思想大師如彼德斯（Tom Peters）、柯維（Thomas Covey）及杜拉克（Peter Drucker）等人共五十本著作，歸納出其設定人生目標的模式後，將其濃縮成十條「如何讓你更接近你的夢想」的規則。如果你無法做到這十條規則，「只會讓你離夢想越來越遠」。這十條規則如下：

一、你必須設定可以達成的有形目標。

二、在日常生活中，每一個你主要的興趣或你扮演的角色中，至少都設定一個你想完成的目標。

三、把夢想和你生命中的熱情相結合。

四、設定能引燃你的熱情或能激發你行動的夢想。

五、把你的夢想所有可以具體化的細節一一寫下來。

六、無條件為你的夢想奉獻一切。

七、和其他類似的人一起分享你的夢想。

八、為你的夢想設定每天、每週、每月及每年應完成的目標，也設定什麼時候要開始做，什麼時候要驗收這個夢想。

九、每天花十分鐘想一下，當你的夢想真的實現時，你會有多爽！

十、每天至少都要做一點「讓你離你的夢想更近一步」的事！

古往今來，人們的夢想往往死在「放棄」手上，毀在「嘲諷」腳下，被「困難」打敗，遭到「拖延」的溺斃。越大的夢想，越可能遇到挫折。這時，你會需要實踐夢想的「六力」，分別是：認知力、執著力、勇氣力、紀律力、專注力、孤獨力。

夢想，只留給一心想贏得的人

一八七八年，萊特兄弟十一歲時，因為收到父親贈送會往上飛的玩具，而對人類的飛行產生了夢想。在當時，沒有人相信人類可以像鳥一樣，在天空翱翔，萊特兄弟的夢想，幾乎是痴人說夢。

然而，他們當時卻立下志向，找資料、向國際學術機構去信詢問、試著打造不同類型的滑翔機，剛開始從一‧五公尺的機翼試起，逐漸加長為五尺、七尺。終於，在一九○三年十二月十七日上午十點三十五分，「飛行者一號」飛機，靠著機器自身的力量，在天空飛行了十二秒，前進了三十七公尺。

這短短十二秒，是人類史上動力飛行的第一次成功。這改變人類一百年的偉大事蹟，背後卻是源自於一個年少的夢想，與二十五年不停歇的研究，與一千多次的試飛。

夢想，就像幸福的青鳥，只留給一心想要贏得的人。

         還是想繼續做個好人.好人總是笨笨的 天真的 傻傻的...但好人還是會計較.因為被委屈太多次,總是會爆發出來.但是好人只想讓自己成長,要朋友知道人與人之間需要尊重.好人不想被生命中任何期待所沖昏頭,好人知道自己是不夠堅強,而且還是害怕寂寞.好人問上帝.這是試煉嗎?為何好人的認真總是沒有任何好的回應,而是不斷的挫折及失落.好人有股力量,決定拋開算命的迷思,決定跟隨神的安排....這股力量隱隱的從心中升起.....好人正在追求心中最終的平靜..好人知道這個過程恨艱辛,因為好人真的太感性了,總是不自覺的委屈到自己...總是把人的話全聽進去..忘記其實話只需要聽一半就夠了,另一半是要用時間去證明真實性.......

         好人即將有新的工作,要認真的工作,認真的過生活..認真的走每一步,不害怕堅持自己的原折....好人要學習與自己相處,.....好人不知道自己能得到什麼?能擁有什麼?但好人相信只有上帝會不離不棄!

        好人最終把期待交給上帝.....放下那不必要的天殺的得失心.好人聽到上帝的加油....................

       

       

      

 

歌手：陳綺貞 |  作曲：陳綺貞
填詞：陳綺貞 |  編曲：李雨寰


你看過了許多美景
你看過了許多美女
你迷失在地圖上每一道短暫的光陰

你品嚐了夜的巴黎
你踏過下雪的北京
你熟記書本裡每一句你最愛的真理

卻說不出你愛我的原因
卻說不出你欣賞我哪一種表情
卻說不出在什麼場合我曾讓你動心
說不出離開的原因

你累計了許多飛行
你用心挑選紀念品
你蒐集了地圖上每一次的風和日麗

你擁抱熱情的島嶼
你埋葬記憶的土耳其
你流連電影裡美麗的不真實的場景

卻說不出你愛我的原因
卻說不出你欣賞我哪一種表情
卻說不出在什麼場合我曾讓你分心
說不出旅行的意義

你勉強說出你愛我的原因
卻說不出你欣賞我哪一種表情
卻說不出在什麼場合我曾讓你分心
說不出離開的原因

勉強說出你為我寄出的每一封信
都是你離開的原因
你離開我　就是旅行的意義

             這陣子,只能用極盡瘋顛來形容自己.或許因為傷心到極點,心中自然有股力量想讓自己跳脫自卑自憐地窟境.今年特別明顯.真正體悟到可以有自主權地選擇要快樂還是寂寞地過生活!

1. 1\14: 為了籌辦自己生平第一次生日party,連夜失眠了好久...有誰能來,預算多少,場地在哪,這些讓我想了2個星期,有趣地是到最後一個星期,我可以義無反顧就訂了花雕雞及Room 18.內心告訴自己我想要大家地祝福.好像太過宣染,對於摩羯座的天性,這是完全背道而馳地..我生來就是走孤獨地一條路,有著空空地無底洞藏在心中....但外在地幸福(親情加友誼),卻讓無底洞有了道陽光...溫暖起我冰凍已久地內心..

   圓滿結束那天地party,充滿扎實地感覺...你可以選擇快樂地活!

 

2. 1\21: 陰陰地天氣,沒有給我惆悵的心情.一早就前往小巨蛋,滑動已停頓一些日子的冰刀.這真是有趣地運動...試圖擺動優雅地姿勢,算了..為了不摔倒,我還是中規中矩地溜吧~~下午,前往美術館看巴黎市立現代美術館美好年代展覽,老實說好在我們不需要買票,這個展覽展出地物品太少...且缺少讓人驚豔地感受! 不過,之後去逛台北故事館,那裡充滿法國風的咖啡廳..嘗著英式下午茶,喝著讓人微醺地香橙咖啡...真是個美好的下午阿~~

   晚上,我們邀請國暈,一起品嘗韓食 北倉洞,真是跟人聲鼎沸餐廳,總是有人癡癡地,望著窗內正在滿足吃著烤肉及鍋類的客人....不好意思啦..我們有訂位喔!我今天從早上一直都保持high到不行的舉止....比如果腹說成果胃,過馬路說來練輕功....不過我愛自己這樣地搞笑....看完我愛上流後,更想為自己拍部搞笑片!!!!

 

      完美地ending在Stackbucks圓滿地結束....愛這美好的週末..持續堅持這樣奢華地生活...

年後就要去不同地環境打拼了...就稱這段日子"年前的喧嘩"吧

              2005年的最後一天,跟最好地朋友們一起度過.

1.阿瑞 性感爆笑慶生plus 小雞ㄚ胖熱舞表演

而後大家努力地趕到市政府前看有史以來最精采第煙火喔!!!!

 

2.101前精彩地煙火...雖然最後by SONY那一幕差點當場冷掉..怎不是國產地BENQ或ASUS呢? FOXCONN也不錯ㄚ...國內大廠們..要有魄力喔...2000萬該捐地.....

 

3. 回程竟然遇上超屌地計程車司機,博命演出終極殺陣 TAXI ...連闖公車道,一路狂飆到停車場..連基哥哥坐在前座,督下出冷汗!!!!!!而我,這個大神經,只顧著跟阿胖聊天,壓根沒感覺ㄚ胖正在發抖.....

 

4.雖然今年是自己還是單身跨年,但不像往年感到沒落...其實真地很快樂跟這些好友們在一起跨年~心裡踏實多了...

 

             一年失戀三次,大概不會再破紀錄瞭...2006邁向成功突破自我之年!!!

想看的電影很多.以下就是了

 

金剛

納尼亞

藝妓回憶錄

斷臂山

如果 愛

孤雛淚

吉屋出租

 

.........................好多.....不能懶惰....要去狂看!

 

台北光點 好片名單

 

最後一次心動

'You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says

This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.

The first story is about connecting the dots.

I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?

It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.

And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:

Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.

None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

My second story is about love and loss.

I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.

I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.

I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.

During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.

My third story is about death.

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.

I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.

This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.

Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.